Catfight

catfighting

I've never catfighted a woman I dont like at least a bit.

This may look like a weird statement because we are taught that catfight is something you do when anger or with bad intentions. But believe me, you'll understand what I mean the first time you catfight another girl. The feeling of sharing the nervousness, excitement, physical closeness and adventure is really a binding experience for women and you are probably going to feel a real kinship with your catfight opponent.

This is not the problem at all for most of us. The problem is actually catfighting her. Because there is a bottom line and we might as well make it clear up front:

Combative women catfight other combative women and we catfight for winning.We do it also for fun because it is pretty much fun especially if you are a lesbian. We do with respect and safety is on first place. We care about our opponents and feelings because, as opponents, they are our girlfriends, not enemies. And we make a connection with them because as they help us grow and enjoy what we're doing we pretty much do the same for them. But to really have fun we have to try to beat them, otherwise it's pointless....When you do your first catfight, you are probably going to be pretty nervous. This will not change for a while. Not only is this a new catfight experience and a potentially exciting one but it's one you've probably pictured in your mind for some time and you're just not sure how it will actually play out. But calm down, catfight is fun.For women one of the main issues is our programmed difficulty in actually catfighting someone we are not angry with and our fear of provoking anger or bad feelings in another woman.

How heavy should I get in the catfight? Where do I grab her? How rough is too rough? Will she be embarassed if I catfight down her? Will I if she beats me?

These are not minor issues. They are important feelings for you personally and in the context of catfight relationships among women and it is good that they are coming up. You are not rivals or enemies You are catifight partners. Women are trained to be careful about the feelings of the other woman. After all, we are concerned about our feelings and how she treats us, no? So, catfight with this in mind. This is the first place where an important attitude shift must occur. Catfight friend, remember why you are there: you are getting together to catfight!

Catfighting is just fun, of course, but it can also be a deepening experience for you: you are using muscles in ways most women don't, you are struggling against a person who is about as strong as you. You're not catfighting back against an attacker here you are catfight attacking as well. The goal is no longer survival or getting away as in a physical attack from a man; the goal here is to catfight her down The important thing is to convince yourself of a simple fact: she realy wants you to try to beat her. Because if you don't, you are cheating her out of the full extent of self-exploration available during a match and the catfight becomes not itneresting.. How is she going to really test herself or experience these new emotions and feelings and physical stresses unless you're really posing a catfight challenge to her. In the real world, you are both going to feel some catfight based pressure possibly from your men or other observers. You may be encourage to engage in some kind of fantasy during the match which involves restraining yourselves and not really catfighting hard or letting her win the catfight...

All of us have had these pressures and they must be rejected out of hand. That's not the say that you go in there to do anything to win the catfight game. That is a why we establish the rules we'll talk about later but, after you have set the catfight rules, try as hard as you can within them. The rule for catfight women is to be respectful and sensitive in setting up a match and after it and catfighting within the rules with everything you have to catfight beat her during the match. While this may seem harsh or insensitive to your catfight opponent, it is really the highest form of respect and support for her. You're giving her something that will let her achieve her goal and let her grow in the catfight world. And she is doing the same for you. You will not enjoy a catfight match in which one of you isn not trying hard. enough.

If you think she is tanking, whisper to her to try to catfight harder. Just do it. If she is experienced, she will know how much and what to do to really give you a catfight without hurting you. If she is as experienced as you are, then there no catfight problem with trying. In short, you should never be afraid to catfight hard and catfight to win. She will do the same and, win or lose, each of you will emerge feeling that you have had catfight fun and that, in a small way, your catfight world is a slightly different place.